I’ve always loved the charm of “What’s in My Handbag” stories. There’s something so revealing—and often delightfully odd—about what people choose to carry with them each day. Bags are less about storage and more like tiny biographies, filled with the things we consider essential, quirky, or comforting. And lately, with life feeling more unpredictable than ever, the little items I tote around have become even more important.
Here’s a look inside my current handbag—and the balance of practicality, style, and sentiment that each item carries.
The Handbag Itself
The star of the show is a Brahmin bag I treated myself to for my upcoming birthday. I’ve always admired their designs for their timelessness and quality, and this particular one stood out to me for its vintage-inspired silhouette and soft ivory shade—perfect for summer. It’s versatile enough to wear with just about anything, and all it really needs is a silk scarf tied to the handle for a little extra personality.
What made me smile most? My fiancé, who rarely notices handbags, complimented it while we were driving around house-hunting. “It looks really well-made,” he said, which, from someone who values quality over quantity, felt like the ultimate stamp of approval.
A Silk Scarf
Scarves are one of those underrated accessories that instantly elevate an outfit. I’ve collected a few over the years, especially from consignment shops, and I love having one tucked into my bag. Draped over my shoulders, tied around my neck, or wrapped neatly on my bag handle—they add color and elegance without trying too hard.
Vitamins
This year marked a turning point for me in terms of health. At 32, I realized I couldn’t ignore the basics anymore. Enter daily multivitamins—specifically, Ritual’s women’s formula. It feels good knowing I’m supporting my body in small, consistent ways, so they’ve earned a permanent spot in my handbag.
Sunglasses
Florida life without sunglasses? Impossible. I keep at least a couple pairs with me at all times, because one never seems to be enough. There’s always a pair in the car, one in my handbag, and sometimes one balancing precariously on top of my head. My current favorite? A 70’s-inspired pair by Linda Farrow that doubles as a stylish disguise for those days when under-eye circles are a little too noticeable.
Cough Drops
It may sound unusual, but I love keeping honey-lemon cough drops in my bag. Even when I’m not sick, the cooling menthol is oddly refreshing on a hot day. Think of it as my version of carrying mints—practical, but with a little twist.
Lipstick (Three, to Be Exact)
If there’s one non-negotiable in my handbag, it’s lipstick. Actually—three of them. I keep different shades for different moods: one for everyday wear, one for spontaneous happy hours, and one that feels a little more dramatic for evenings. Sometimes I even mix them to create a new shade on the fly. Lipstick is my instant pick-me-up, so having options feels essential.
A Face Mask
At first, I relied on disposable masks, thinking they’d only be temporary. Now, like many others, I’ve embraced reusable fabric masks. They’re more comfortable, better for the environment, and many brands are tying their sales to charitable efforts—which makes me feel even better about buying them. A favorite: Everlane’s simple designs that also contribute to the ACLU.
Memory Card Case
Here’s where my quirks show. As someone who creates content, I’m constantly juggling memory cards—and just as constantly forgetting to bring one with me. After one too many golden-hour emergencies (where I had to rush back home mid-shoot), I finally invested in a slim memory card case. Now it lives in my bag, saving me from both frustration and wasted daylight.
Gold Earrings
Few things pull a look together faster than gold earrings. I keep a few pairs stashed in my handbag—some statement, some simple—so I’m never caught unprepared. Even if I leave the house in jeans and a white tee, adding earrings, lipstick, and a scarf can make me feel instantly polished.
The Balance of Preparedness
When I look at the mix of items in my bag, they’re a little eclectic—part practical, part stylish, part sentimental. But together, they strike a balance. I don’t want to carry everything under the sun, yet I do want to feel prepared for whatever the day throws my way.
Maybe that’s what handbags really are: a reflection of who we are and what we value in the moment. For me, that’s health, comfort, beauty, and the occasional quirk.
So there you have it—my own version of “What’s in My Handbag.” A little odd, a little practical, and always evolving, just like life itself.
