It’s wedding season once again, which means calendars are filling up with save-the-dates, invitations, and group chats buzzing with plans. With the celebrations come the inevitable wardrobe dilemma: What on earth do I wear this time?
If you’re anything like me, you’ve probably already attended one or two weddings this year, with more still ahead. And thanks to social media and endless photo ops, outfit repeats often feel like they’re off the table. So, let’s get into it—the wedding guest style guide for this season, complete with decoding tricky dress codes and highlighting some of the best trends to shop (or rent) right now.
Decoding the Dress Codes
First things first, before shopping, it’s important to understand the dress code. The venue and the formality of the event set the tone for what works—and what doesn’t.
- Black Tie: Think glamour, think elegance. This is your chance to channel your inner red carpet star. A full-length gown, sparkling accessories, and heels are the standard here. It’s a great excuse to go all out.
- Formal: Slightly less structured than black tie but still sophisticated. A floor-length dress or a chic cocktail-length option in a classic color is ideal. Stick with timeless silhouettes and avoid anything too bold that might distract from the couple.
- Casual: A “casual” wedding does not mean denim. Usually, it signals an outdoor or daytime affair. Opt for something airy and romantic, like a light floral dress paired with wedges or strappy sandals. Effortless but still polished.
And a reminder: unless the invitation specifically requests it, white remains off-limits.
Five Trends for Wedding Guest Dresses
Now that we’ve cleared up dress codes, let’s dive into some of my favorite trends this season. Whether you’re shopping or renting, these are the styles worth keeping an eye on.
1. Florals
Romance is at the heart of weddings, so florals will forever be a perfect fit. This year, I’m loving dramatic floral gowns with ruffles and movement. One of my go-to brands right now is Amur—their designs strike that sweet spot between luxurious and sustainable. Picture yourself in a flowing floral dress under twinkling string lights—it’s wedding perfection.
2. Bows
I’ve always loved the femininity of a bow, and lately, they’ve made a chic comeback in formalwear. While you never want to compete with the bride, a statement bow detail—like those from Alexia Maria—adds a touch of romance and whimsy without being over the top. It’s a detail that feels sweet, feminine, and timeless.
3. Embroidery
Embroidery is having a major moment. Designers like Monique Lhuillier are elevating classic wedding guest looks with intricate detailing that feels both luxurious and playful. Her ready-to-wear collection in particular is full of statement pieces that don’t break the bank but still feel special enough for the occasion.
4. Rentals
If you’re wary about investing in a dress you’ll only wear once, rental services are your best friend. Rent the Runway offers endless options across every dress code, with contemporary designers like Marchesa and Jill Stuart always in rotation. If you’re looking to level up, Armarium is another rental service, specializing in true runway pieces from icons like Oscar de la Renta and Carolina Herrera. Think of it as borrowing from the dream closet you never had—but always wanted.
5. Vintage
For a one-of-a-kind look, vintage is unbeatable. Shopping secondhand not only adds character but also ensures you won’t show up wearing the same dress as another guest. Platforms like The RealReal, eBay, and Etsy are treasure troves for unique finds. Sure, tailoring may be required, but it’s worth it when everyone asks, “Where did you get that?” and you get to share the story behind it.
Making It Your Own
At the end of the day, the best wedding guest outfit is one that makes you feel comfortable, confident, and ready to celebrate. Whether you go the rental route, splurge on embroidery, or hunt for that perfect vintage gem, the key is to embrace the moment while respecting the couple’s big day.
So, as you RSVP to the season’s weddings, remember: the dress is just the start. Pair it with confidence, a great smile, and maybe a little time on the dance floor—and you’ll be perfectly dressed for any celebration of love.
